From my Book – From Charm to Harm and Everything else in Between with a Narcissist! @ The Narcissist idealizes his/her victim for a while – just like “courting” in the ‘old’ days. This “…
Month: July 2016
Don’t Be a P.O.W. to an abuser for life – THIS HAD NOTHING TO DO WITH YOU! The first steps to recovery – knowledge and a strong education.
From my Book – From Charm to Harm and Everything else in Between with a Narcissist! @ SAY NEVER! We never, never, never deserved this and most assuredly NEVER, EVER asked for this abuse b…
Love Bombing – appropriately named because a bomb is a tool meant to destroy!
From my Book – From Charm to Harm and Everything else in Between with a Narcissist! @ Narcissists DO find their ideal victims, and usually they are emotionally giving, very caring, kind, …
Source: Love Bombing – appropriately named because a bomb is a tool meant to destroy!
STOP believing!
From my Book – From Charm to Harm and Everything else in Between with a Narcissist! @ I finally stopped believing when I realized I was compromising my own emotional and psychological w…
Source: STOP believing!
The “Ah Ha” quiz! Do any of these statements define you, or have you experienced any of the following?
From my Book – From Charm to Harm and Everything else in Between with a Narcissist! @ 1. You always seem to feel physically tense, anxious, some aches and pains, stomach ache, fast heart…
Worthlessness, Depression, and Unemployment
I am almost impressed by how worthless depression and unemployment can make you feel. If you have depression, chances are you already question your worth. Unemployment can seem like confirmation of…
Worthlessness, Depression, and Unemployment
I am almost impressed by how worthless depression and unemployment can make you feel.
If you have depression, chances are you already question your worth. Unemployment can seem like confirmation of your worthlessness. Job searching is like a really un-fun game to see how many times you can be rejected and still get back up after. Every rejection can make you question your own worth. Am I not good enough for that job? Am I not smart enough, skilled enough, nice enough? Am I not worthy of a job?
Since I graduated, I’ve been looking for full-time work. The job search isn’t going that well. I place some of the blame on the poor job market, and some of the blame on myself. Yes, it doesn’t help that I live in a city that was hit hard by the recession and hasn’t really recovered. Yes, it doesn’t help that I’m overwhelmed…
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Five Ways To Ensure He Wants More
On the darkest days.
Source: On the darkest days.
The Narcissist’s world is a unique world or their personal ‘playground’ designed JUST FOR THEM by them AND they are in charge like the playground bully that makes everyone conform to their needs and play along OR ELSE!
From my Book – From Charm to Harm and Everything else in Between with a Narcissist! @http://www.amazon.com/Charm-Harm-Everything-Narcissist-Narcissistic/dp/1523820179/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1462614209&sr=1-1&keywords=from+charm+to+harm
A Narcissist acquires and seeks out supply because of the huge void that exists within them that requires constant excitement, chaos, and drama or whatever brings them attention (good or bad)! Their world is ONLY comprised of external stimulation to meet all of their needs. The excitement and drama generated must be truly unique, ground breaking, breathtaking, overwhelming, unprecedented, and, under no circumstances, boring or routine to the Narcissist. Without internalized emotions or bonding with other people they have to defer to external stimuli. The chaos and damage they create is the natural consequence of the Narcissist’s disordered and out-of-control lifestyle and need to constantly seek out newer supply so their world really lacks any normal consistency and stability. It has to be AMAZING so that the Narcissist constantly feels special, meaningful and…
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