How Codependents Leave Abusive Narcissistic Relationships

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You may be feeling crazy because you love a narcissist and are afraid to leave the abusive relationship.  It will be easier to help yourself leave the more you know about codependency and narcissistic personality disorder.   Abusive narcissists require someone who is willing to cater to their needs and to give up their own desires.  Narcissists are self-destructive people with concealed low self-esteem and insatiable needs for attention and nothing to give. They parasitically attach to a giving, supportive person who avoids center stage and thrives on taking care of others.

Expecting something from an abusive narcissist who has nothing to give can make a codependent feel crazy.  Trying to pretend that the narcissist is someone he or she is not can drive you wild.  So what is codependency?  Codependents are people who have spent years negotiating with reality concerning particular people from their past and present.  Codependents spend years trying to get…

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‘Once upon a Time’ – the Narcissist’s love story or better yet loveless story as it really concerns relationships and people.

From my Book – From Charm to Harm and Everything else in Between with a Narcissist! @   Narcissists loosely ‘pretend’ to love us for as long as we do what they want us to do for them or aga…

Source: ‘Once upon a Time’ – the Narcissist’s love story or better yet loveless story as it really concerns relationships and people.

Narcissists are like the Pied Piper that plays a magical flute that seduces all types of people to follow him/her wherever the Pied Piper wants them to go AND do what they want you to do. You are not even aware of the other people that are right there with you because all you hear is that magical tune that keeps playing in your heart and mind that is all lies and manipulation.

From my Book – From Charm to Harm and Everything else in Between with a Narcissist! @   The truth and reality of any connection with a Narcissist is that you have been carefully selected, a…

Source: Narcissists are like the Pied Piper that plays a magical flute that seduces all types of people to follow him/her wherever the Pied Piper wants them to go AND do what they want you to do. You are not even aware of the other people that are right there with you because all you hear is that magical tune that keeps playing in your heart and mind that is all lies and manipulation.

Don’t Be a P.O.W. to an abuser for life – THIS HAD NOTHING TO DO WITH YOU! The first steps to recovery – knowledge and a strong education.

From my Book – From Charm to Harm and Everything else in Between with a Narcissist! @   SAY NEVER! We never, never, never deserved this and most assuredly NEVER, EVER asked for this abuse b…

Source: Don’t Be a P.O.W. to an abuser for life – THIS HAD NOTHING TO DO WITH YOU! The first steps to recovery – knowledge and a strong education.

Don’t Be a P.O.W. to an abuser for life – THIS HAD NOTHING TO DO WITH YOU! The first steps to recovery – knowledge and a strong education.

  From my Book – From Charm to Harm and Everything else in Between with a Narcissist! @   SAY NEVER! We never, never, never deserved this and most assuredly NEVER, EVER asked for this abuse b…

Source: Don’t Be a P.O.W. to an abuser for life – THIS HAD NOTHING TO DO WITH YOU! The first steps to recovery – knowledge and a strong education.

Narcissists are not acting on ANY normal or real premise like love, care or sharing empathy – they create these scenarios because THEY WANT SOMETHING FROM PEOPLE!

From my Book – From Charm to Harm and Everything else in Between with a Narcissist! @   Narcissists are shameless self-promoters AND experts at carving out the perfect (false) image for the…

Source: Narcissists are not acting on ANY normal or real premise like love, care or sharing empathy – they create these scenarios because THEY WANT SOMETHING FROM PEOPLE!