Love Bombing – appropriately named because a bomb is a tool meant to destroy!

From my Book – From Charm to Harm and Everything else in Between with a Narcissist! @   Narcissists DO find their ideal victims, and usually they are emotionally giving, very caring, kind, …

Source: Love Bombing – appropriately named because a bomb is a tool meant to destroy!

Worthlessness, Depression, and Unemployment

This is a Depression Blog

I am almost impressed by how worthless depression and unemployment can make you feel.

If you have depression, chances are you already question your worth. Unemployment can seem like confirmation of your worthlessness. Job searching is like a really un-fun game to see how many times you can be rejected and still get back up after. Every rejection can make you question your own worth. Am I not good enough for that job? Am I not smart enough, skilled enough, nice enough? Am I not worthy of a job?

Since I graduated, I’ve been looking for full-time work. The job search isn’t going that well. I place some of the blame on the poor job market, and some of the blame on myself. Yes, it doesn’t help that I live in a city that was hit hard by the recession and hasn’t really recovered. Yes, it doesn’t help that I’m overwhelmed…

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The Narcissist’s world is a unique world or their personal ‘playground’ designed JUST FOR THEM by them AND they are in charge like the playground bully that makes everyone conform to their needs and play along OR ELSE!

After Narcissistic Abuse

From my Book – From Charm to Harm and Everything else in Between with a Narcissist! @http://www.amazon.com/Charm-Harm-Everything-Narcissist-Narcissistic/dp/1523820179/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1462614209&sr=1-1&keywords=from+charm+to+harm

A Narcissist acquires and seeks out supply because of the huge void that exists within them that requires constant excitement, chaos, and drama or whatever brings them attention (good or bad)! Their world is ONLY comprised of external stimulation to meet all of their needs. The excitement and drama generated must be truly unique, ground breaking, breathtaking, overwhelming, unprecedented, and, under no circumstances, boring or routine to the Narcissist. Without internalized emotions or bonding with other people they have to defer to external stimuli. The chaos and damage they create is the natural consequence of the Narcissist’s disordered and out-of-control lifestyle and need to constantly seek out newer supply so their world really lacks any normal consistency and stability. It has to be AMAZING so that the Narcissist constantly feels special, meaningful and…

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Dumped by a Narcissist- Idealization, Devaluation & Discarding

Phoenix Sphere

English: Broken heart sewn back together

After experiencing betrayal by a narcissistic sociopath/psychopath and starting this blog, the first useful website I found on the subject was  ‘Cheating and Narcissism Support’ by a European woman, Maria: http://www.cheating-infidelity.com/.

Maria’s website is extensive. A survivor of a narcissistic betrayer, Maria has arranged her site into the following sections; Recovery After Cheating and Narcissism, Narcissism, Cheating and Infidelity, Emotions and the Brain, Discussion Forum- Surviving Cheating and Narcissism, Stories- Narcissism, Stories- Cheating, and Blog- Cheating, Narcissism, Brain and Mind.

At ‘Cheating and Narcissism Support’, I read about the three phases of being loved by a narcissist. Theses phases so succinctly summed up what I had been through in two and a half years that reading about them felt like having the breath knocked out of me.

1. First, is the Idealization Phase. (I call this the ‘Pedestal’ phase.) The narcissist puts you on a pedestal. Not…

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